Waiting for child support from an overt narcissist in a scary feat. When your rent, utilities, gas, food, ETC rely on a narcissist’s pity, you’re in a rough spot for two reasons. One is that he loves the attention when you text and darn near beg for his precious money and Two is that he really doesn’t care if you need the money or not. The whole focus here is his ego and your demise. Both of which is roils around in self love for. Blech.