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This is the waiting game where I  patiently wait for the overt narcissist to bestow kindness upon me and get the child support to me. It was promised for today but alas, it is midday and I have yet to hear nary a word. It sucks having to rely on the unreliable.

Waiting for child support from an overt narcissist in a scary feat. When your rent, utilities, gas, food, ETC rely on a narcissist’s pity, you’re in a rough spot for two reasons. One is that he loves the attention when you text and darn near beg for his precious money and Two is that he really doesn’t care if you need the money or not. The whole focus here is his ego and your demise. Both of which is roils around in self love for. Blech.

Being with a narcissist spouse for over 20 years has left with me a two-edged sword. I now have to work to trust someone that’s never given me any reason whatsoever to mistrust him. And actually, has proven beyond any shadow of a doubt that he’s so trustworthy that I could give him my everything and my everything matters just as much to him as it does me. I love that man.

Perfectly true

“Will you be dropping off the kids?”

“Um yeah, meet me?”

“Suuuure. When.”

“Uhh, 5?”

“Uhh, 5:30?”

“I dunno, I guess I’ll let you know”

“Thanks.”

GRRRRRRRRRRRRR

Its been said that the narcissist is totally focused on themselves. Well the ultimate showing of that is when *he* proceeds to party rather than buy school items that have been PROMISED since July because *he* has no money but “found” some “extra” money when *he* wanted to look like a Disneyland Dad hero to *his* daughter. HellO she needs BOOKS, not APPLEBEES.